[Anthony1990Keymaster]

Lily09, I can relate. It would be a lie to say that I never get nervous when talking to someone I like, but talking to another Christian helps me as well. Christian girls seem to be more laid-back and approachable, at least in my experience.

[MoxieParticipant]

I won’t message a man first because I might get too shy. If he likes me he can send to me.

[Tevo77Participant]

Hello all, 🙂

I’m new to this site(of course). But with that said, I really look forward to meeting many people! it would be nice to get a tutorial or something out here DX, Best of luck to everyone out there :).

[AsianformeParticipant]

There was a tome that making the first move by a female was viewed as being loose or forward. But in today’s society it is common place and normal. I think it’s ok for a female to show interest and then let the guy take over.

[AsianformeParticipant]

I don’t have a problem reaching out first. I’m new here and I’m still trying to figure this site out lol

[TyrellneonParticipant]

Yeah, I agree. I actually find it attractive when a girl reaches out.

[miaParticipant]

@anthony1990 I think being nervous isn’t too big of a deal. It’s pretty normal for the most part 😛

[miaParticipant]

@asianforme, that’s because you’re a guy… Lol. It’s a bit harder for us girls when it comes to reaching out.

[AsianformeParticipant]

@mia it really should not matter. Iuse to be shy about reaching out when I was younger. You think to much into it. You worry about rejection but now I seem it as a reality. Everyone won’t see you as you see yourself and that’s ok. We all have different taste and likes. I just say oh well their lost and life goes on. Guy or girl it’s all in your confidence level.

[Charles57Participant]

Hello. I just arrived. To comment on anull’s statement, I have found the same with Asian women involved or married to white men. There are many here in Kansas that won’t speak to Black men even if they’re single.

[Charles57Participant]

I’ve visited a few Asian countries during my time in the military and I’ve always been greeted with warmth and friendship. I’ve been attracted to Asian women since I was a child. However, most of my contact with Asian people have been talking with other men and their families that I met and children I would encounter on the streets. The kids seemed to know where the best food was! LOL

[SingaporeGirlParticipant]

Hi new here. Would like to get to know the guys and girls on this chat.
Tess

[Jones120Participant]

New here, as well.

And I agree that being behind online, it helps me because I can feel relaxed. I also agree that women shouldn’t feel that they can’t message the guys first.

Look at it like this, each party has a chance of getting shot down. Conversely, they have a chance to getting a message, getting to know one another and establishing something genuine. Life is about risk, let’s be honest. How are we ever going to know what will happen if we don’t try? Sure, you could get shot down. Yes, you could create something amazing. But the important thing is, you’re not left with that “what if” eating in the back of your mind, yeah? Just best to shoot your shot. 😁

Haha, sorry for the long drawn out answer. I got…excited over this topic… 😂😅

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